I’m here to tell you that I’m gone
I’ve worked at home full time since 2005, and the longer this situation goes on the more I’ve had to compensate for my social isolation with technology. I rely on IM to provide the kinds of idle conversations and impromptu meetings with colleagues that I once had face-to-face in the office. The beauty part of the whole arrangement is that IM allows me to avoid the meetings I once dreaded during my days as an in-office worker. I don’t have to sit through long “all hands” meetings (where I often passed the time on IM anyway).
More importantly, I can avoid unwanted chatter that interrupts my workflow. I do this by deploying a form of IM etiquette that I call “always away.” IM clients allow you to specify a status that gets displayed to other people using IM, and the defaults are things like “available” or “away.” I always set my status to “away,” sometimes adding a phrase like “working” or “fighting aliens.” Most of my colleagues do the same thing (except for the fighting aliens part). This allows me to have plausible deniability when I need to ignore a purely social message that interrupts my workflow. After all, I might really be gone. But I can respond when a colleague messages me about something important.
Every new form of social interaction breeds its own etiquette. Read more about this.

October 16th, 2007 at 11:33 am
[...] Annalee Newitz writes: More importantly, I can avoid unwanted chatter that interrupts my workflow. I do this by deploying a form of IM etiquette that I call “always away.†IM clients allow you to specify a status that gets displayed to other people using IM, and the defaults are things like “available†or “away.†I always set my status to “away,†sometimes adding a phrase like “working†or “fighting aliens.†Most of my colleagues do the same thing (except for the fighting aliens part). This allows me to have plausible deniability when I need to ignore a purely social message that interrupts my workflow. After all, I might really be gone. But I can respond when a colleague messages me about something important. [...]